{"id":9,"date":"2012-09-17T04:49:14","date_gmt":"2012-09-17T04:49:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/scorellis.com\/?p=9"},"modified":"2012-09-17T12:10:38","modified_gmt":"2012-09-17T12:10:38","slug":"how-to-be-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scorellis.com\/?p=9","title":{"rendered":"How To be Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_button\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/scorellis.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/facebook-button-plugin\/images\/standard-facebook-ico.png\" alt=\"Fb-Button\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/scorellis.com\/?p=9\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\"  width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div><p>Greetings &#8211; I am Scorellis, \u00a0AKA Scott.\u00a0 Are you listening?<\/p>\n<p>My friend Brent Ozar (this entire blog is his fault, BTW) once told me that you should never post your blog posts at unusual times; people that are subscribed to your blog won&#8217;t ever see it, it will get lost in the scroll. \u00a0 Since this blog doesn&#8217;t have any subscribers, I feel OK breaking this rule. \u00a0What I do want to do is explain (quickly!) why I am doing this and why you should read it.<\/p>\n<p>I know how to fix things that are broken. \u00a0(you can stop reading now if you like.) I began breaking things as soon as I could hold a screwdriver. \u00a0I think I was 5 when I took apart my Dad&#8217;s camera. \u00a0Sometime in my early to mid-twenties, I started to get the hang of putting things back together. \u00a0That was twenty years ago; I have been fixing broken\u00a0things\u00a0almost every day since then. What is the most complicated thing I ever fixed? I once yanked the action out of a piano (it made me mad) on a Friday afternoon and completely rebuilt it and got it back into the school&#8217;s piano in time for music class Monday morning. \u00a0That was actually more repetitious than anything&#8230;complex&#8230;hmmm. I&#8217;ll have to think about that. Right now, what I want to do, is make this information about how to fix things available to everyone.<\/p>\n<p>First things last, though. \u00a0There are some rules here. \u00a0You have to be yourself. \u00a0I have observed that some people aren&#8217;t quite certain how to do this (not you! You are awesome,. just the way you are! But those friends of yours??&#8230;). \u00a0Here is a short list of things that help to remind me that I am Scorellis, and not anyone else:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Today I am marching to the beat of my own drum..<\/li>\n<li>I will be enthusiastic about being &#8220;here,&#8221; wherever &#8220;here&#8221; may be.<\/li>\n<li>Rather than thinking outside the box, I am simply throwing the box away.<\/li>\n<li>I will sing out loud whenever the acoustics of a room, or my mood, requires it.<\/li>\n<li>I am cutting my loaves of bread lengthwise.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m going to plant &#8220;weeds.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0I&#8217;m going to let my waiter pick my entree.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m going to send people birthday cards when it is not their birthday.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m going to carve paths through my yard and build the treasure map my son drew when he was 5.<\/li>\n<li>I won&#8217;t &#8220;inch forward&#8221; at traffic lights just because the person in front of me did.<\/li>\n<li>I no longer have a kitchen, a living room, a dining room, and a family room; I have a roasting room, a work room, a music room, and a learning room. All my house is my stage.<\/li>\n<li>Spontaneity will be the cornerstone to my reality.<\/li>\n<li>I will eat dessert and coffee for lunch.<\/li>\n<li>I will drive 45mph in the work zone when everyone else is going 60.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m not going to live life by the numbers. I am going to forget how to count.<\/li>\n<li>I&#8217;m grabbing for the scissors, and making my own template.<\/li>\n<li>I am breaking change.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Some posts will be long, some will be short. \u00a0There will be how-to&#8217;s posted here that you wouldn&#8217;t give a rat&#8217;s ass in a cat storm to read. All I ask is that you stay tuned, and let me know what is bothering you, how can I help? \u00a0I don&#8217;t give relationship advice&#8230;that is my wife&#8217;s job. \u00a0She knows everything I need to know about being in a relationship; and what I don&#8217;t know, she&#8217;ll tell me. If I am listening \u00a0&gt;:[=]<\/p>\n<p>One final note: \u00a0Just about everything posted here will be original work. \u00a0For example, you will never, ever see a photo on this site that I \u00a0or someone (credited) that I know didn&#8217;t personally shoot. \u00a0In any project I show you, I will also (almost) \u00a0always try to use tools that are simple and easy to use. SO please refrain from comments like &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you just use a jigsaw?&#8221; or &#8220;Dude, just hit it with the Dremel.&#8221; \u00a0Not everyone has those things. \u00a0However, sometimes you will be right, and I will do\u00a0that, but mostly I am just doing that because I am impatient, and have a lot to do!<\/p>\n<p>~s<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Greetings &#8211; I am Scorellis, \u00a0AKA Scott.\u00a0 Are you listening? 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